We all want a soulmate. “The One.” Your perfect partner who can read your mind and finish your sentences. We want fate and fireworks. But believing in predetermined destiny is limiting. It leaves little room for adventure and what life may want to give you. What if The One isn’t who you thought they would be? Love isn’t always syrupy sweet kisses and walking off into the sunset. Sometimes the purpose of a soul mate is to tear down your walls, shake you awake, and reveal new parts of yourself. They become a mirror that exposes new dimensions of you, parts that you may relish in or shrink from. Soul mates give you the opportunity to notice personal obstacles. And then actually do something about them. They can force you to your own leading edge. To grow. Expand. Develop. But all that emotional fever does not guarantee that they are your life partner. Often rive...
Dear lady, Just for the record, while you are waiting for him to recognize your existence in his life by simply doing any sort of contact with you whenever he has any spare time to give, please note that he is actually dedicating his full time to another woman. Dear another woman, while you are enjoying his full attention and bragging to your friends how he can’t stop pouring himself on you, please note that he’s actually ditching another woman he carelessly replaced by you, a woman who -not so long ago- enjoyed the same privileges you have now. When he allows you to take a step closer to his world, only then you will start seeing things differently. Will get to see him differently. He’s no longer that man who clings to his phone whispering love words to you, when only you and none else is around. You will get to see him interacting with the world, making decisions, behaving as a human being, and only then, you can say you know a man well. Always be the one who say...
Wish if I said no. I shouldn't have accepted the deal. I shouldn't have agreed on being tested! Tested for love ? Tested For what ? For being the one ? For being the one who deserves to replace the yet irreplaceables ? The one who accepts any condition just to be with him ? Him .. ?? Who is HE ??? I know, He is the one testing me !! Why I'm so helpless to say no ?? How will I know if I'm doing well, Or if I'm already getting an 'F' ? I don't really want to pass his test. I should have declined, I should have said no, NO, I DON'T LIKE TO BE TESTED! Or do I ? I don't know !!! Love is a test itself, Love is the thing that determines if we pass it or not, If we should go on or not, And so far, His stupid test, Killed my baby love, It wasn't even a LOVE, Was it ?? It just struck me once, And I'm praying it don't strike twice. A stupid space he asked for, Before anything, Before getting deep, He n...
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